LOVE THING

~UNFAIR~

Unfair is when you had given your best & still left you behind
Unfair is when you had been true to him & all you had were lies &false promises
Unfair is when you choose him over anybody else & he choose another one over you
Unfair is when he had moved on & you was left stranded
Unfair is when he found someone new & you also did but you choose to love him still
Unfair is when someone comes again but your heart refuses to see for the fear of getting hurt again

~One True Fact~
Anyone can make you feel happy by doing something special,
but only someone special can make you happy without doing anything

~Pay Attention~
if you love someone, let it show. Don't hold back, never deny your feelings, never economize your love and most of all, never take that person for granted coz you'll never know what you're missing 'til it;s gone!

~Falling Inlove~
Falling inlove is never a decision; always by chance...
Staying inlove is never a chance; always by choice... & falling out of love is never a choice; always a decision...

Secret of Happiness

when sadness fills your heart
when tears make you fall apart
when its gloomy all around
when you hear a silent killing sound
when love loses its meaning
when you always end up screaming
when hope is lost and faith is shattered
when you have lost every battle that mattered
that is gifted time in life
cause god is with you when you struggle and strife
don't let it go for there's much you may learn
cause happiness is gained only when you yearn
this dark night will soon end in day
we will laugh again and play
spring will come very soon
our fate will again shine like moon
hopes dashed to ground will again be honoured and crowned
desire left alone will never be drowned
the dazzling light from above will fall on us
it will Begin the process of all sorrow minus and all joys plus
HE'LL COME WITH HIS RADHA AND HIS FLUTE
WILL SAY TO YOUR HOPE TO YOUR FAITH

A BIG BIG SALUTE

He'll say life is waiting for you
angels and love is in your crew
NOW DON'T EVER SHED A SINGLE TEAR
CAUSE I'LL BE ALWAYS THERE

= Navdeep Babbar

April:It's true. If we put God as the center of our lives, everything will be fine because God can make impossible things into possible things. In Him, all our burdens will cast away because He will always be there whenever we are on struggle. Isn't it enough that He gave us His only Son, Jesus Christ to save us from our sins and it's one way of telling us that He loves us and that we mean so much to Him. So, whenever we have problems, we must not be afraid of 'coz we know that God will always be there to lift us up and guide us. We must trust God 'coz God knows everything and He has a great plan for us. For God will not give trials in our lives that we can't overcome 'coz God knows that we can do it only if we trust Him.

Little Love Thing Story of My life

They said love is the most important thing on earth. without this love, man would not be able to survive. with love, everything is possible! as the saying goes... "Love conquers All"...
Many people will do anything just to prove to someone that what they felt is really that love thing. they would say they love the person more than their own lives but isn't it so ironic? could a man love a person more than his life? would he prefer to give everything to that person even if nothing remains to him?... I wonder why most people would say things like this. Well, I guessed I can't judge them because each one of us have their own point of view.
Based on my own experience, I had love more than once. I experience heartaches and it took awhile for me to recover the pain I felt inside. I know I'm still too young to experience this kind of thing. Here's a view of my own love story. this story was when I thought I found someone that will be not forever but someone that will be there for me for a longer time...

I never thought that this man would really become a part of my life. At first, I really don't like him because at the first time I saw him, his a kind of man that I hated most. Specially when the time he did something bad to me. I really told to myself that I will make a revenge to him. so, I just let it pass. as years went by, our road cross again. I never thought that someday he will come to me and ask for some advice but still I didn't forget the thing he did to me. Until such time that we become close. He's helping me when I need some help. I really don't know but things just suddenly come without knowing that he's starting to like me. I just really don't know why it happened. he is starting to share with me his secrets. During our summer vacation, I got surprise because he's always communicating with me and even to the point that he is always calling in my cell. It was really shocking to my part when he called me at my birthday when in fact, even my bestfriend forgot to greet me. Then starting that day, i started to wonder why he's doing those things.

As the class start, I try not to put a gap between the two of us because I don't want to mine the things he's showing to me. I can still remember the date when he courted me... June 6,2007. I'm just laughing at that time because I want to ignore him. when I found out that he's asking for a help with my friends. I just told him that i cannot answer him directly 'coz at that time, I don't have any feelings for him. Then he just decided and told me that he can wait for me... Indeed, he waited for a six months long. I never thought that he can do it. But to my surprise, he did. he actually asked the permission of my family when he courted me and waited for me. When time comes that I felt something to him which I know it is not just pity but I know it's something I can't deny so, I decided to myself to fix my decision. At my friend's birhtday , I decided to answer him. he told me that he was so happy. He's always calling me twice or thrice a day. I can't hide the happiness but sometimes i must so that it would not be inapproprite action. Those times that we're together, we experienced the love thing with happiness and of course with sadness. we've been to trials that I can't deny that sometimes i ant to give up. we've been until five months.

just recently this year, we broke up. I was the one to broke it up because there are things which I can't figured out. I admitted to myself that it was so hard and it is so painful in my part but I have too specially now that we're not in the same school and I know that both of us will be busy. We tried to fix things and he want reconciliation but things just did not work out, hence, it worsen the situation. well, anyways, I just decided to myself that that's the cycle of life and all I have to do is acceptance. I must accept the fact that we're not meant for each other. Now, I'm happy that even somehow, we're friends although not that close. Its been six months since the day we've broke up, just a proportional to the months he waited for me.

~April:
I know, things that happened in our life has a purpose. God knows what's the purpose of every tears we cried and that of every happines we smiled. All we need to do is to accept things and thank God for everything. I know it's very hard to let go but isn't it the best way to let us realized that there are much better things to come. We may thought that it was the best but then we failed... It's just alright because it will make us a better person someday and it will serve to us as an experience to become tougher for the next one. We must be strong in everything and in every way. Just believe in yourself and trust God.

one thing I can advice,.. when you decided to love again, itis very important to have a BIG trust to your partner because things will just go in the right way if there is that trust. of course, it will not work out without the guidance of our Almighty God!

~Godbless Us All~

ChRisTmas

it's Christmas time again... i know there are lots of gifts to be given and gifts to be receive. streets are busy with people buying and selling christmas stuffs. houses are full of beautiful decorations with christmas lights. christmas trees that are so tall filled with balls and angels. some people now are thinking on what to do on Christmas eve. i know that's the usual things people do during this season but we should not forget on what is the real essence of celebrating Christmas. isn't this the day that our savior was born to save us from our sins. a historical day of our lives which we should be giving thanks to our creator. we should not only focusing ourselves into an earthly decorations but we should also pay attention to our very own self. i suggest that we should confess all our sins before we celebrate this meaningful event. it doesn't matter on how big and how beautiful is your preparation but it matters most on how did you prepare for the coming of the Lord. we should put in our mind that we are not just having this kind of celebration just to have fun but it also indicates and help us remember that above all things, we should celebrate this with great love in our hearts, sharing and giving. .. that's the most important thing that we must do.

MerRy ChrIstMas tO aLL.. eNjoY!

~LeTtiNg Go~

Why it is always easy to get hold of something yet hard to let go of it? Why the hardest part of one’s life is letting go of something or somebody that is so special and treasured? Just imagine ourselves like a little child who holds his kite securely and tightly as it sways and flies in the wide blue skies when we tighten our grip on the things we don’t want to lose. We make sure it doesn’t slip off our hands. Then when it slips off and fly away, we cry so hard like a helpless child who doesn’t want a new kite but the one he just lost. Isn’t it funny? We want to run after it. Fly if we must just to catch up with the “lost kite” in us. It’s frustrating, isn’t it? With just one loss, we end up decimated and find it hard to get back and start all over again. Why is that so? It is simply because we don’t want to let go of whatever we are holding and whatever we are comfortable with. We don’t want to start anew and find a fresh beginning. In short, we are scared of “change” hence, resistant to it. Indeed, letting go is a hard-hitting decision to make. It requires much thinking and strong determination to do so. It is done for a very good reason and a very healthy motive. Not selfish motives. I have tried doing so. I have experienced letting go of a crush, a dream, an ambition or a job I loved so much. I have let go of a very special person, a toy, a plan and even a relationship. I have experienced how it is to let go of a loved one (my mother), and yes, of a friend. But I have come to an epiphany that perhaps, I only let go of these because there seemed to be no other choice. Am I right? I let go, yes, but I lamented over it, I mourned. I grieved. And perhaps, we all have every good reason why we want to keep them and never let go of them because these are beautiful things and worthy to be kept and treasured. But still we let go. But looking on the other side of the coin, how ironic it is for us to find it harder to let go of bitterness, of anger, of our pains, of unpleasant experiences. Why do we keep them and harbor them in our hearts? Why can’t we just let go of them and free ourselves from the tormenting pain and anguish they bring in us? Why can’t we just liberate ourselves from the torturing guilt and blames? Letting go is a choice. It is a decision to make. It is just like avoiding sweets and chocolates and pasta because we are into “no-to-carbo” diet. It is the same with deciding what course to take in college or where to go for a vacation or which car to buy. They’re all the same. It is just similar to giving your best dress to a friend or a favorite toy to a needy or giving your last peso to a beggar. But why do we exert more time on thinking about the negatives rather than the beautiful things in life? Why is it easy to love than to forgive? why is t easy to give love than to do away with hatred and resentments? Letting go is done with unfettered will. If we really intend to live life to its fullness then we have to choose to live a life that is free from guilt and torment, free from anger and bitterness, released from all ill-feelings against something, somebody and most importantly from one's own self. According to a Latin phrase “carpe diem”, letting go is just like seizing the day. One can never seize the day unless he lets go of what is keeping him from doing so. Accordingly, we will never be able to receive new blessings if our hands are full. Unless we open our hands and release all that we are holding, all that keep blessings away, we will never be totally blessed in abundance. Letting go is not freedom for what you are “letting go” but it is freedom for yourself. Letting go of something means “letting go of yourself” that is, freedom from self.

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